An Article from my son   RAMU ANIL

When Mind Comes Into Play.

         

                 I happen to be on of those people who are by luck born within the best family and friends our mother earth could ever have. Mom and Dad have well educated and high ranking jobs in the society and also I happen to be blessed with another dear family member that is no one else but my own Sister. One could call our family abnormally weird or totally awesome, (depends on the persons thoughts and way he was brought up), Because ours wasn’t just any normal traditional Indian family. We were different and that’s where it all begins. Being different!.

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       I wasn’t one of those people whom u could call normal. I lived in my own world. My rules and my ways was all that mattered. When I was a little kid I had my own imaginary world where I was the king, I was the hero, I ruled and everything went my way. But apparently I figured out the hard way that it was the other way round.

     Basically born in a totally developed modern family exposed me to various experience at a very young age making my mind a very complicated thing to work out. Taking decision was one part of the equation. I call it “The Double Mind”. Its like whenever you need to make a decision one part of my mind would say “Go ahead take the leap, don’t think just do..!!!” while the other side would say “screw it man, you are not up to it”. And because of this double minded experience, I lost touch I making the right choice. And my parents thought I knew life and I would make the right best of decisions. Maybe I should’ve told them everything but my double mind confused me there too.

      All this sudden realization came to my after I finished my high school. Well not exactly finished it, unfortunately I failed. So I had to repeat one whole year. This gave me time to think what happened to me where I made my mistakes and how I fooled my self for things.

     Like food, air, water dance was another integral part for my survival. Its not jus any dance but one of the toughest most hardest and complicated type of dance there is. BBOYING. Most Keralites (yes am born at Kerala a normal South Indian teen) cant even spell de name correctly. It helped me made one of my most mental changes ever. My double mind was gone. Because bboying involved tough risky and painful practice where you should not think twice before u decide to learn something. If you do, either u end up in a hospital or maybe even dead. It made my mind rough confident and made me realize one of the most important part of life. The mind play is essential to reach any goal in life. If you decide to do something in your life its better either to do what you are go at or do something that your mind likes and want to do. Each day I improved I started seeing each stunt and move as a challenge and made my mind like and love it. And I wanted to do it so badly. That was a sudden change to my physical and mental self. I was abnormal doing things normal people cant with ease. I learned that mind plays a vital role in achieving any aim. Have confidence and let your mind play it out.